You said....
1."First, I'm not complaining. Nobody's got an obligation to listen really closely enough times to spot that stuff."
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2. "Second, I get feedback about mixes here that is really valuable to me."
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3." Finally, I think you can't count on this forum to spot stuff you've fluffed. Again, I'm not complaining - I'm trying to understand how this place works so I can have a good time with it - but I think this place often isn't so much an mp3 clinic as an mp3 radio station."
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Are you really sure of what you were saying, or are you just venting and thinking out loud over concerns you had when you listened to you stuff on your friends gear? It sounds to me like you just wondering out loud because you run off both sides of the road in those 3 comments.
Lt and some others are right about the mixes, they are all a little different after conversions to mp3, and every person seems to have different gear to listen on. Some have several listening options at their disposal. Things are heard somewhat differently by most everyone. And some ears are more refined than others, and some people may not present their point in the same wording as others.
A statement several have made concerning vocals presented on a piece could come into play here as well. "If you wrote it, performed it, and know all the words it may seem a bit loud to you, but if you`ve never heard it, you`d want them up so they are intelligible and distinct." I feel sure you`d agree...
Speaking for myself, I`ve been a musician most my life. As far as being a home recording technician, I came here last summer with little more than the words "I have a soundblaster, what can do?"
So, apparently the accumulation of knowledge from interaction in a free clinic (I like to call it a lab) is quite a different scenario than merely listening to a radio station. I feel sure you'd agree there too...
'as to depending on all the people here to spot and point out everything, it usually won`t be done to any scoping surgical degree, unless... you are paying them to be totally objective, and by placing that $ value on their judgement you get a dollar to dollar exchange. In that case they will surely spend all their time in analyzing all the aspects of only your presentation, and not try to be brief so to enable allocation of listening time to other contributors. There`s only so much time.. I think you`d most likely agree there too...
As reflected in earlier posts, you're the pilot, before you press the switch on the burners, it`s up to you to decide based on what feedback you`ve gathered, and ultimately what you really feel, before you should say "go".
I`m sure you did not mean to infer that the time given for listening and sincere reflection by many of us here was not genuine, or from informed positions by whatever means, and would not be valid for helping you to produce your album. Although the written statement may have seemed to point that way.
Peace.