I really do respect the amount of time and work you've put into making your drums sound real. You've done a good job. Honestly. But I think I've told you this before.....no one will notice. Sure, you'll notice because it's your baby, and someone like me might notice because I'm a drummer that records drums, but 99.9% of everyone else that listens to your songs will have no idea nor will they care how "real" your drums sound. As long as a beat is there, the listener thinks "drums" and that's all they need. Look at those old Def Leppard records. That shit doesn't sound anything like real drums, but not one single person of the millions that bought that shit cared about the drums. It's a sad fact of life, but it's also a blessing in disguise. Keep doing your best with what you have, and maybe back off the micromanaging a little bit. Find a happy balance and you'll be fine.
Greg, you'll never know how much your compliments mean to me dude, honestly...Especially about my drum programming man, really, thank you so much for helping me along the way (I'm still learning too, not so much "how" to program, but what a real drummer might or would do...), listening to my shitty songs over & over (sorry again....lol), giving me pointers/tips about it, helping me with my toans, choosing what gear would get me where I wanna go with my sounds, & just being a good friend overall dude....I can't thank you enough for all the help you've given me over the past couple/few years...Again, thank you so much dude....
And I know 99% of the people who hear my stuff won't know or care if the drums are programmed realistic or not, but I guess I'm just a geek who's really picky about his shit, & I wanna do my very best on everything....
Maybe my new year's resolution should be to stop being so picky about everything...lol...
Thanks again Greg...
Have you tried using some sort of pad/trigger setup?
I know lots of guys prefer that when using drum sample apps...to manually programming in the MIDI editor...?
The other option, and one I use when needed and when possible....is to have a drummer record drums for you. Yeah, you need to mic up the kit and get decent sounds...but if you know anyone in your area, it might be an option for you. They might have a decent recording setup at their place...still, they need to know your songs.
I put up a drum kit in my studio mainly so I COULD invite drummers over without that hassle of them bringing their kit and
setting up and all that shit....this way the kit is there, pretty much miked up and ready to go.
That said...I don't mind using the drum sample approach when my drummer is not willing or just not available, and I actually don't mind programming in the MIDI editor. Mind you, I'm not in love with it, as it is time consuming....but I got use to so that way back when MIDI drum programming was even more cumbersome and sounded like shit for the most part...back in the days of crude sequencers and drum boxes...so with the drum apps they have these days, like the Slate stuff or my favorite, Superior Drummer...the programming is kinda fun, only because the drum samples now sound quite good, and I can really tailor the drum tracks exactly as I need them to fit the song.
Anyway....I think pads or a drummer buddy might be your easiest approach if you hate the programming.
You can also get people online to do drums for you, but that may or may not work for you. I mean, it's not a big deal to get someone to put together a more generic set of tracks for you, but knowing that you are also picky like the rest of us here, you probably want the hits/accents to be specific for the song....but, maybe you can try that, see how it works...?
It's not that I hate programming the drums Miro, it's just really time cosuming....I do use Jamstix, & while it's sped the process up quite a bit (after I'm finally learning
that program too...lol), it's still a long process....
I know I'm too picky, & have gotten worse about it over the past year or so, maybe I need medication for it...

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Never tried the pad thing, but I have tried tapping shit out on my midi keyboard, & I honestly sucked at it...I'm sure I could practice with the keyboard, but I'm honestly just not interested in doing that at all...
I do think I'm gonna look into an e-kit, as I'm pretty sure I can whack out a basic song idea a lot faster than I ever could by programming 'em...
Again, I'm gonna try to stop being so fuckin' picky about this shit, & finish my fuckin' album....
Happy New Year to all the tone thread guys, hope the new year brings you everything you want!!!!