Does anyone have any tips for setting up spaced pair overheads with LDCs to soften cymbals? I usually set them up equidistant from the snare about a foot off the cymbals, pointed straight down, but when a drummer really smashes a brighter cymbal, it comes out harsh and ear-tearing. It doesn't sound like distortion, and I can help it with EQ, but I'm wondering how everyone goes about using this technique and any knowledge they may be able to impart.