FattMusiek
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Hey guys and gals. I'm pretty bored at the moment so I figured I'd make this post. My girlfriend of two years and three months left me again a week ago saying things like "I don't think I can be happy with you in the future" and similar things. I'm 21 and she is 20. Some back story for you:
Back in late January she broke up with me during a period of stagnation in our relationship. I was unemployed, smoking a lot of weed, playing an online game entirely too much. It took my by surprise; for some reason I had it in my head that our relationship was so special to both of us that she'd never leave me. In addition to me basically wasting away, she had another guy interested in her which helped the process along.
During this time I attempted to be her friend but after a short time I decided I couldn't handle the pain of calling her when she was with this guy so I cut off all contact with her and began to get on with my life. I went to her house and told her what was up--later sister.
One week later she puts a burned CD on my car with "Please call me" on it and prints out the lyrics. The jist of the songs was "I miss you." It really moved me. During the time we were broken up I thought all I wanted was another chance to do "everything right that I did wrong to cause this break up."
I rushed over to her place and caved in (took her back), even after she told me she hooked up with the aforementioned guy shortly after we broke up. We got back together and things were pretty good between us. I had my chance to NOT do all the things that she did not like about our prior relationship as well as had my chance to be with her romantically again. During this time I knew that after three months she'd be going to Boston for an unpaid internship while rooming with her best friend. Still, I felt the relationship was renewed and I had just gotten my trust for her back when...
She broke up with me again (back together starting early March till the end of July). On June 1st she left for the Boston internship (was to be there until August 1st). The entire summer I've been dreaming about the moment she'd come back to me; it was the theme of the whole summer. So imagine my surprise when ten days before she was to come back she dumps me...
I haven't talked to her since the phone call where she broke up with me a week and two days ago. I gave her mom back her stuff (except a book I'm still reading) and can't really justify speaking to her until I am in a place where I feel better off without her.
The thing I don't quite understand is she knew she was coming home after two months. I wonder if this was a rash decision on her part. Unless she has found some new guy to have ready for her when she comes back, she's going to be lonely because she doesn't have many friends in the area. I guess sex really isn't as important to women as it is to guys after all. How does a woman walk away from a consistent (and good) sexual relationship for the prospect of something better in the future?
Sorry for the novel! As I said I'm kinda bored. It would be cool for this to be the newest, happening thread on this forum .
Back in late January she broke up with me during a period of stagnation in our relationship. I was unemployed, smoking a lot of weed, playing an online game entirely too much. It took my by surprise; for some reason I had it in my head that our relationship was so special to both of us that she'd never leave me. In addition to me basically wasting away, she had another guy interested in her which helped the process along.
During this time I attempted to be her friend but after a short time I decided I couldn't handle the pain of calling her when she was with this guy so I cut off all contact with her and began to get on with my life. I went to her house and told her what was up--later sister.
One week later she puts a burned CD on my car with "Please call me" on it and prints out the lyrics. The jist of the songs was "I miss you." It really moved me. During the time we were broken up I thought all I wanted was another chance to do "everything right that I did wrong to cause this break up."
I rushed over to her place and caved in (took her back), even after she told me she hooked up with the aforementioned guy shortly after we broke up. We got back together and things were pretty good between us. I had my chance to NOT do all the things that she did not like about our prior relationship as well as had my chance to be with her romantically again. During this time I knew that after three months she'd be going to Boston for an unpaid internship while rooming with her best friend. Still, I felt the relationship was renewed and I had just gotten my trust for her back when...
She broke up with me again (back together starting early March till the end of July). On June 1st she left for the Boston internship (was to be there until August 1st). The entire summer I've been dreaming about the moment she'd come back to me; it was the theme of the whole summer. So imagine my surprise when ten days before she was to come back she dumps me...
I haven't talked to her since the phone call where she broke up with me a week and two days ago. I gave her mom back her stuff (except a book I'm still reading) and can't really justify speaking to her until I am in a place where I feel better off without her.
The thing I don't quite understand is she knew she was coming home after two months. I wonder if this was a rash decision on her part. Unless she has found some new guy to have ready for her when she comes back, she's going to be lonely because she doesn't have many friends in the area. I guess sex really isn't as important to women as it is to guys after all. How does a woman walk away from a consistent (and good) sexual relationship for the prospect of something better in the future?
Sorry for the novel! As I said I'm kinda bored. It would be cool for this to be the newest, happening thread on this forum .