Well thanks you all for your willing to help thats first!!
Of course i wouldn't like to go into this argue, basiclly because i dont have much knowledge in this buisness.
First of all both of your mixes sounds really good, i would say thats the sound i would wish to get, and i hope that its possible.
but what i still notice in those mixes is that the guitar is not on too high volume, but somehow it still got a big place in the mix, also its not fill of highs, its even really "midi" but it sounds good on the mix- if i try to remove the highs from my dist, it justs sink down in the mix, and the mix become very mood, and bassy, with no air.
Also your guitar is really clean, i mean distored, but its isnt dirty, its really smooth, i really hope that with this amp i would be able to get that sound.
about how i recorded, i did this on bridge pickup, with all knobs (volume, tones) set to max on the guitar.
on the amp i have a chose of Gain, contour, bass, treble and unfortunately no middle, the gain though on this record was on 3/4 way up, less then that it sounded overdrived, but mostly clean. bass was about 1/4, treble at 1/2 way up and countour on 3/4 way up.
So basiclly what is left to try? layer recording, and on another try more gain? i still feel that my sound lacks "deepness" which i could hear clearly on the dont look back mix (the guitar level was higher- i could hear clearly what my guitar sounds lack).
Also shall i try again the combo of dynamic and condenser?
Thank you Very much,

Aviel
P.S- i guess that some of the problem about the guitars position in the mix should be with my mixing / mastering technique.
On one hand- it seems that i get the guitars on too high levels, but on the other hand, when reducing them- they just disapper.