Voxengo GlissEQ for broad balancing strokes, Kjaerhus Golden EQ7 for surgical cuts (this just replaced eqium which was my former top shelf cutter), trying to work Voxengo HarmonicEQ in as a sweetener coloring EQ, posihfopit to sweeten highs (haven't gotten farther than that yet), Voxengo CurveEQ to borrow bass & treble curves from commercial recordings to set GlissEQ with...
My new all-time favorite is the Blashfashmaster EQ. Followed closely by the Blingfingfongo, and then of course there's the Poshmoshmeister and the Klingklopdopper I just couldn't live without.