<<you will see that they both have the same diaphram in them>>
i too have heard that about these two mics. however, we all know that the diaphragm is not the end-all/be-all for why a mic sounds like it does.
<<And they are not for drummers that cannot control their playing>>
while i may be a little hard on the rest of the kit, the kick is the one thing that i'm definitely "lighter" on. many a soundman has said "gimme some kick" during soundcheck and said "is that it?" when i did so. i prefer finesse, a light touch and speed on the kick, so "yeah" is always the answer. suffice it to say, while some folks plow through a kick drum--i'm not one of em.
.....really oughta learn speed, light touch and finesse on the rest of the kit, though. ;-)
<<You can over load them>>
with this particular pro25, apparently it didn't take much.
that's not to say that someone else might have perfectly positive experiences with the pro25. since they're getting the mostly thumbs up around here, i figured i'd play the opposite side for once.
wouldn't be opposed to giving an ATM25 a whirl once, though, just for shits and grins.
wade