
Steenamaroo
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If someone's tone deaf it's game over.Anything can be accomplished if you work hard enough.
Liken it to being colour blind.
You can practice telling red from blue all day long; It's never ever going to help.
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Many of you aren't even commenting about the original post but about how people who can't sing should just give up, or ranting which is kind of disappointing.........
I wanted to upload clips of me singing get some advice without any snide comments, and implement the advice I was given.
Welcome to the internet.
I do have a throat issue, but that can be corrected with different vocal techniques.
I don't think you do, or at least, it's not the cause of what I perceive to be your 'problem'.
It's been said: I think you're over cooking the emotion which results in you really holding back from actually singing.
The later clips in the thread are somewhat better.
I'm no vocal coach, but it sounds like lack of confidence.
Practice doing an impression of someone strong. Completely abandon your own style and just impersonate Sinatra for a few days.
Play his records loud and try to outshine him.
After a day or two come back to whatever it is you want to sing and bring some of that strength with you.
Of course, that's what I want to hear. It might not be what you want to do.