Hi guys,
Sorry, I was busy and have not replied immediately.
Hi Glen,
Recently I just learned something, a trick in mixing, ofcourse, so that your mix sounds good. By experiencing that, I also learned, that trick fixes my problem here. I cant believe it, I got it right.
Especially, rythm distortion that are hard panned left and right, I applied that trick to those LR distortion, and if you can do it right, whatevers on the center will sound more centered and squeezed even you didnt squeezed or EQ it.
I know you already probably know that trick. Just wet those distortion with short reverbs to smoothen it out, panned hard R and L, EQ a little bit, again whatevers on the center especially kick and snare, leave it as is maybe EQ a little with no compression. With those LR distortion on, those drums will get squeezed by those guitar and will sound more centered

In short, its me that had the problem, not the faulty software. I still lack the skills in making music sound good.
BTW, also the panning law helps a little bit. I switch to -3db center.
Now I learned that trick, I did a short mix and it sounded like this
http://www.lightningmp3.com/live/file.php?id=21832
Thnx!