dobro said:
I just don't notice all this stuff unless I've listened to it on three different systems, and sometimes not even then.
If you get the chance, get some SONY MDR-7506 headphones, they really are the 'reference standard', you can hear 'everything and they are well balanced. Because they do not 'color' the sound, many say they sound dull or 'flat'. That's exactly what you need in a reference monitoring soluiton.
With the SONY MDR-7506 ... at least you are hearing the whole range of frequencies. Also, trust your meters, it takes a little getting used to say ... if a vocal and a kick are both around 6db on the meter, well, then which one 'appears' louder, well, the kick will probably step on the vocal a bit ... but the meters are very important.
To test your mixes on all sorts of audio solutions is of course advisable, everything from a cheapo clock radio, to a really nice jambox, all the way to a high-end home stereo, and of course you should always check your mixes in a huge stadium over stacks of 20 or 30 4-way combo 250Watt pro PA speakers ... of course
Some day I would like to add a sort of oriental sounding violin motif, and idee fixe repeated thoughout the piece, bees would be appropriate for that. Where sometimes the little violin 'riff' would be a fill, and in the open spots it would seem to be the lead for a moment, and then it would be mixed back as just another structural 'motif'.