arcadeko,
Rock drums produce around 105 decibels. The ceiling/floor partition must be decoupled to accomplish any perceivable degree of attenuation below 250Hz. (this is basically where all the energy is)
See attached page from ir811 which can be found in it's entirety on
my publications page.
You must determine exactly what you want/need and then follow proven techniques to obtain the result desired. You can't afford to go try this or that.
'real good' sound-proofing simply doesn't 'cut it'. When it comes down to the bottom line subjectivity is meaningless. You really need STC69 if you can get it and according to tested systems, you can get that with resilient decoupling and a mass equal to 3 layers of 5/8" (16mm) gypsum board (firecheck or fire rated). That is a mass of 35.1kg/m2 or 2.2lbs/ft2.
The page shows testing done with two layers of 16mm gypsum board and resilient channel. - some of the new resilient clips have shown better performance.. Check their testing data.
Long story short; Find out what you need and can afford and build that. Check testing data on systems - don't take my word for it. check the data.
Note; Sorry Alan, -- sound deadener/dense fiberglass in the partition cavity. No. Use the light building insulation fiberglass and fill it full. This will increase sound transmission loss by around 6db ( A LOT). The dense stuff does not perform better and besides, the fluffy stuff is A LOT cheaper! Good idea about decoupling the bass guitar. - The drums could also sit on a decoupled board to help prevent transmission into the structure.
Cheers,
John