
miroslav
Cosmic Cowboy
Plus, the original query was "How DO YOU mix?".
Not "how should people mix".
Yes...that was the original question, and I think some folks have given their 1-2-3-4-5 step process.
Of course, the discussion naturally moved to the next step...and even though no one actually asked the question - "WHY do you mix the way you do?" - that's kinda where the talk about drums and their role…came into play.
Granted...if one only listens to and likes 200+ BMP shred music...it's not going to be too surprising if they mix within those “values”.
Likewise, if someone likes big, chest-thumping kick/drum sounds...then they will certainly feel that without them, a song is always "weak" or "empty" sounding...etc
That said...there still can't be just one, myopic view of how to mix...and without specifically saying to anyone "this is how people SHOULD mix"...it can still be suggested that by being exposed to and involved with a wider variety of music, everyone's ideas of how to mix would surely expand and vary…even become more imaginative than just sticking only to the one style they were originally familiar with.
But I know that's not going to be the most common approach with the typical "home recording" kind of crowd. They will focus mostly on their narrow area of interest…and that’s fine if it works for them, whereas most pros by their profession and varied clients, will automatically learn to find wider and more varied views to apply to that initial question - "How DO YOU mix?"...
…but for them the question will really be “How DO YOU mix THIS song?”

And that’s the question that should be asked here...IMO...though I'm sure everyone will still have some personal "style" in their mixing that sorta touches everything they in small or large doses.