I know those guys, and have played with them in previous bands. I assure you we sound nothing like them. Vocal wise maybe, but thats about it.
The problem I think I am running into.. goes back to the phrase "to each his own". Secret Lives is awesome. I love them, and think they are better than half the "modern radio" stuff. They are signed and doing what they love for a living.. so obviously they aren't as terrible as alot of people would think. What one type of person doesn't like, the next person will.
So, by asking what people on a forum of ALL types of musicians/listeners thinks is good and not good.. Is not going to get me anywhere due to the fact that there are too many different types of people. It doesn't appeal to everyone. People that like Nickelback(I think they are horrid) will not think secret lives is all that good.
My best bet is to leave the critiques on genre to the people that come to our shows and visit our myspace. and leave the recording critiques for here. If you want to list bands that sound like us that are better..
I can name a couple. as they are who we base alot of our stuff off of.
www.myspace.com/memphismayfire
www.myspace.com/iamterrified
www.myspace.com/mayleneandthesonsofdisaster
www.myspace.com/agirlagunaghost
www.myspace.com/trialsandliars
www.purevolume.com/deadreckless
www.myspace.com/removetheveil
We sound similar to all those bands in different ways, but I don't consider us a direct rip off of any of them. I will say, that Secret Lives always seemed like a Glassjaw rip off, because their singer sounds IDENTICAL to Glassjaw's, but I honestly think thats part of what got them signed.. since Glassjaw is one of the most beloved bands in the hardcore/screamo genre.
Appreciate the thoughts and comments. I think its better left for our fans to decide what, and how he sound. You guys are here for recording!