On the plus side, I got to laugh at my own responses. I forget about little one-offs like those, and they amuse me to no end when I stumble on them.
Anyway, a tip of the hat to fruity for coming back to, uh, well, he claims it was an apology, so I guess I'll go with that.
As listed above, no one questioned your musicianship. It's just that we've all met theater folk, and they are pretty much all pampered prima donnas, sort of like pro atheletes, except skinny and gay. You know, the kind of guys who would wrap an "apology" in a 45,003 word autobiography.
EDIT: Ok, the above is harsh, but I am a jerk. To be clear, you're fine in my book, just a little on the frilly side.