I have heard people say, "Why isn't this song as loud as all my other songs?"
Me not wanting to have to be there to explain over and over again why this song sounds just as good if you only turn up the volume a few more notches so they are on the same db level, does not make me a frightened rabbit or insecure at all....and you are a moron if you think otherwise.
Look, I'm sorry you're that insecure about your songs. If you do happen to be standing there, the only explanation you need to offer is "shut up and listen".
Let's list the common reasons I've heard here and elsewhere about why excessive damaging soul-sucking loudenation is necessary:
*People listen on ear buds. All of those people who suffered hearing damage on $2 headphones before 1995 were lying.
*You need to hear your song in da club. All of those people who suffered hearing damage in da club before 1995 were lying.
*People do stuff like driving while listening to music these days. All of those factory car stereos installed before 1996 must have been a massive bit of performance art since I guess they didn't play music.
*People play music while giving their primary attention to Facebook and text messaging. If you don't fit the mold, they won't be able to treat your music as disposable background filler, and that would be a shame.
*Nobody cares about sound. At all. They don't care about sound to such a high degree that they will, with 100% reliability, not buy any song that has different sound than other modern releases.
*People decide if they like a song based on how loud it is. The following scenario happens all the time: Here I am at the iTunes store... Oh wow! The new Pigeon Butchers album! I f^&$'n LOVE these songs! Eh...wait...Justin Beiber is louder. I guess I have to suffer through that "baby, baby, baby" crap instead...
*The only stuff that can possibly sell is loudenated to high heaven...except for the millions of older legacy catalog songs that still sell like crazy. But the only reason people buy them is because they like those songs, so that doesn't count.
*It is way too much work to personally explain to every customer why the volume is lower, because obviously any time an album does not sound exactly like The Current Template people need an in-person answer before enjoyment can occur.