try to keep in mind that this is a community, so there will be all types of personalities contributing. if you think bruce is a gear snob, just keep that in mind when reading his posts. brush them off if you so choose, or maybe better, contribute encouragement when you feel he's being too harsh with someone.
i agree that beginners really need support in this field since it's not cheap, and since there are so many variables ranging from people's rooms, budgets and gear, ears, taste, and passion. for the most part, getting and giving answers is never as easy as saying "buy this compressor", "stay away from behringer," or "what's the best budget preamp?". hell, truths of one style of music may not apply to others at all. if i recall correctly, the guy who mixed outkast's "hey ya" loves cheap alesis gear, and i swear to god i read about some professional who loved the 3630 for particular jobs. i imagine that behringer composers must be used in plenty of pro racks. use what works until you know it's not working for you. i don't think bruce would argue against that... except the 3630 part.
i hope that you don't let peoples' attitudes affect you too much to listen to what they have to say. at the same time, not everything that someone will say will apply to you. you'll have to pick and choose what is the right advice for you, and that's not too difficult if you understand where the advice is coming from.
good luck with your music,
marcus
p.s: a note to newbs, use the search function
