The SBX listed these controls:
Controls : Level; Phase; Subwoofer Frequency; Satellite Frequency
Switches : Auto on/off; Satellite high-pass output bypass
Use these controls to find the problem, i.e, maybe the phase for starters. I would highly recommend using the "Satellite high pass output bypass" to let the Warfdales have their full frequency and not rely on the questionable quality of the SBX crossover.
Get the Warfs sound nice using the bypass and let them have all the frequency, then gradually bring in the subs volume to fill in what is missing from the very low registers and then tweak that frequency.
Since the Warfs are 45 Hz at -3db, then you might want to start at double that frequency on down for the subs low pass frequency, i.e., 90Hz and lower. Setting your sub at 90 Hz, should mean at least -3db at that frequency with 0db at half that frequency, i.e, 45 Hz. This would compensate for the Warfs -3db at 45 hz.
The SBX is rated for 30Hz at its lowest. That should mean -3db at 30Hz and at 60 Hz you have 0db with the SBX. So in essence, this set up is allowing you to get 15Hz lower at -3db than Warfdales 45 Hz -3db limitation.
You are getting 15 Hz lower. Use the sub to add subtle low frequency "presence".