i had a few more questions. One is like what do you do to basically make the vocals seem to blend with the beat, just mess with the volume?
yes and no.
Simply raising the vocal might work at certain parts of the song and might get lost or overpowering on others, so you need to get the vocals ready to be mixed into the beat.
comping (a collection of the best vocal takes) /
eqing /
reverb / (and most important)
compression.
number two is for you add libs and dubbed parts do you pan then or leave them all straight because i think sometimes they sound better panned but when you have headphones you can hear the them more in one ear and it doesn't sound that good
This part is up to you, mix them in a way that compliments each other and the song as a whole. Don't let them get in the way of each other either. Head phone are always going to give you a wide stereo sound cause they are right at your ear and isolated to each ear, in a car or at home the speakers are in one place left/right and you are in another place. So i would not worry about it sounding a little wide, it might translate really well on the monitors.
And 3 is what do you do to the final product to make sure it is loud but doesn't clip?
Your talking about a Comp/Limiter. at this stage i would suggest getting the mixing right, then moving on to mastering. Until then you should send your stuff to a Mastering Engineer. If you really want to do it yourself there are some decent plugs out there like ozone or t-racks, but if you want to be a good engineer one day, you will take the time and money to go thru every learning step and not cut corners with preset mastering. Some presets in ozone are really nice, but you will always have to go back and tweak each parameter a little according to what is going on in the mix.
sorry for so many questions but i just really need help hahha
no worries man, just make sure and experiment after you are given advice.
you will soon come up with your way of doing things. mixing is an Art.
Also, don't be afraid to spend money on some good hardware equipment.
-mike-