And this is the part where a Strat man like myself steps in and say's go fender, go Strat
Still aint tried out a Pacifica Gidge, maybe one day i will and agree with you, hehe..one day
Fender make good quality guitars, and thats what you want, something that will last you through and through, and Strat's do a perfect job, you can pick up a strat for under $200 i am sure. Just look around, and don't go for any cheap crap just to save a few bucks. Trust me spending the extra $50 can make a lot of difference.
Here's a tip for your fingers, for strength in the muscle, wiggle your fingers under cold (not freezing) water for about a minute at first then gradually upgrade 10 seconds and 10 seconds every week. dont do it for too long though, when it starts to ache, take them out. As for the tips of your fingers, i used to soak a tissue in "turps" (Turpentine) although not too soaked, just a few drops. and Rub them on the tips of your fingers. Be careful though, its dangerous, make sure you only rub the tips and not below, cos it can burn!
regards
aL