$1,000 in my pocket, what do I do?

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shooting down guys who don't have your level of experience, both in the recording field and in life.
You're framing it far too personally. That's not how I feel at all

If you want me to apologize for having a bit more experience than some (not all) here, I can't apologize for something I can't do anything about. If you or others want to hold that against me, that's also something I can't do anything about.

Don't hate me for being older or for doing this stuff longer than many others (but not all) here. I can't hop into a time machine and change that.

As much as you might want to believe otherwise, life is not fair and is not a level playing field. All opinions are not created equal. That's not any kind of opinion or bigotry against anybody on my part; it's just simply how real life is.

I don't feel superior to anybody. I defer to many others here on many subjects and in many ways. I'm just relating what I know. If that makes others feel inferior, that's their choice to react and feel that way. But don't blame that reaction on me.

And note that I tried to end this stupid sub-thread; and that it was only after I did that you guys jumped in and decided to not only continue it, but make it personal.

G.
 
... I can't apologize for something I can't do anything about.
Yes you can, it's easy - I'm sorry --It's not always about you. It could be just as simple as something someone needs to hear to heal.
If you or others want to hold that against me, that's also something I can't do anything about.
Yes you can, Let us consider one another to provoke unto love and good works.
 
You're framing it far too personally. That's not how I feel at all

If you want me to apologize for having a bit more experience than some (not all) here, I can't apologize for something I can't do anything about. If you or others want to hold that against me, that's also something I can't do anything about.

Don't hate me for being older or for doing this stuff longer than many others (but not all) here. I can't hop into a time machine and change that.

As much as you might want to believe otherwise, life is not fair and is not a level playing field. All opinions are not created equal. That's not any kind of opinion or bigotry against anybody on my part; it's just simply how real life is.

I don't feel superior to anybody. I defer to many others here on many subjects and in many ways. I'm just relating what I know. If that makes others feel inferior, that's their choice to react and feel that way. But don't blame that reaction on me.

And note that I tried to end this stupid sub-thread; and that it was only after I did that you guys jumped in and decided to not only continue it, but make it personal.

G.

And you're framing it far too specifically.

I don't hate you for being older or having more experience...what the fuck are you talking about there dude? I think I made it pretty clear that I respect that. If you'd like to read my post again what I was actually talking about was your lack of respect for people younger than you with less experience. Did you really misread that, or are you deliberately twisting my words? And don't tell me that's a non-issue, because I've been watching you fly off at the less informed for months now.

And you don't get to just close a stupid argument that you started, life doesn't work that way.

You're right, life isn't fair. I of all people know this. And again, you're right, all opinions aren't equal. But other people's right to express them, and other people's right to listen to and ask for them is none of your fucking concern.

You used to relate what you know, now you just criticize people for not knowing as much as you, for asking questions, for trying to help people with their limited experience. If I'm wrong point to the post in this thread where you answered the OP's question constructively rather than just pulling apart other people's opinions?

I don't want you to apologise for anything, I don't give a tinker's cuss whether you feel superior or not. What goes on inside your head is not my problem. What would be appreciated though, is if you'd stop being a pompous jerk to people all the fucking time.

Whether you choose to believe it or not, this is coming from someone who has a reasonable amount of respect for you. I'm not here to deliberately rile you like some others are. I respect your experience and like hearing your constructive take on things. I'm merely observing that you're being an ass and it's pretty much a fucking shame. It's like this place has jaded you (which is totally understandable). Just try to play nice huh? There's a tonne of people here who don't know what the fuck they're talking about, but no one is going to listen to the people that do if they're jerks about it.

"If you think you can do better, do better. Don't just sit there telling people they aren't good enough."
 
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Yes you can, it's easy - I'm sorry --It's not always about you. It could be just as simple as something someone needs to hear to heal.
If someone needs to hear a complete stranger apologize for something he can't possibly truly be sorry for because he's got no control over it in order to "heal" from some self-imposed wounds, they need something far more profound than a fake apology from me to help them.

Who the hell am I that other's mental health depends on my telling them that I'm sorry? That's not me trying to act superior, that's others falsely putting me up that way. If I were to make a fake apology, that would be me pretending to think that I actually did matter that much.

Well, NYM, here's a news flash; I don't. I'm not that important. And it gets tiring for people to paint me that way, even unintentionally, by going out of their way to give such a shit about my posts, good or bad.

G.
 
If someone needs to hear a complete stranger apologize for something he can't possibly truly be sorry for because he's got no control over it in order to "heal" from some self-imposed wounds, they need something far more profound than a fake apology from me to help them.

Who the hell am I that other's mental health depends on my telling them that I'm sorry? That's not me trying to act superior, that's others falsely putting me up that way. If I were to make a fake apology, that would be me pretending to think that I actually did matter that much.

Well, NYM, here's a news flash; I don't. I'm not that important. And it gets tiring for people to paint me that way, even unintentionally, by going out of their way to give such a shit about my posts, good or bad.

G.

No one wants an apology. An apology is worthless if you're going to continue being an ass after the fact. Just stop being an ass.
 
ADid you really misread that, or are you deliberately twisting my words? And don't tell me that's a non-issue, because I've been watching you fly off at the less informed for months now.
Do you really believe that I'm deliberately twisting your words? Really??? REALLY????? :rolleyes:

When I go off on the less-informed, I don't go off on them for being less informed. I go off on them for pretending that they are not less informed. There's a big difference between those two.

I also don't go off on people for being poor basketball players. I'm not a great one myself, and there's nothing wrong with that. But I do go off on lousy basketball players who pretend to be NBA all stars.

You seem to think that I have a problem with people asking stupid questions. Not really. My problem is far more with people giving stupid answers.

I don't go over to Harmony Central and tell people how to play the guitar, because I don't know enough about that to be any kind of authority. So instead of abusing my right to free speech by spewing a bunch of garbage that I've heard others say that I really have no idea myself whether it's actually true or not, I keep my yap shut and listen and read instead. There are a whole bunch of forums and topics like that where I listen and learn instead of pretending i know what I'm talking about just to satisfy my ego.

My god, people, if you don't know what you're talking about, then don't say it. It's that simple.

And if this post is too long for a few folks who are dyslexic or lazy, that's too damn bad. Go hang out on Twitter if you don't like posts longer than 140 characters.

G.
 
Do you really believe that I'm deliberately twisting your words? Really??? REALLY????? :rolleyes:

I asked, didn't accuse or make any expression of belief. And I didn;t really believe it myself because I don't beleive you're that sort of idiot. But what were you doing then? Because your comments were not at all in line with what I said.

When I go off on the less-informed, I don't go off on them for being less informed. I go off on them for pretending that they are not less informed. There's a big difference between those two.

I also don't go off on people for being poor basketball players. I'm not a great one myself, and there's nothing wrong with that. But I do go off on lousy basketball players who pretend to be NBA all stars.

You seem to think that I have a problem with people asking stupid questions. Not really. My problem is far more with people giving stupid answers.

I don't go over to Harmony Central and tell people how to play the guitar, because I don't know enough about that to be any kind of authority. So instead of abusing my right to free speech by spewing a bunch of garbage that I've heard others say that I really have no idea myself whether it's actually true or not, I keep my yap shut and listen and read instead. There are a whole bunch of forums and topics like that where I listen and learn instead of pretending i know what I'm talking about just to satisfy my ego.

My god, people, if you don't know what you're talking about, then don't talk about it. It's that simple.

And if this post is too long for a few folks who are dyslexic or lazy, that's too damn bad. Go hang out on Twitter if you don't like posts longer than 140 characters.

G.

Ok. That's cool. I understand where you're coming from. I totally respect your position. :)

Is there any chance you could be ever so slightly less of a berk about it though? :)
 
yo, can we end this? please? for all of us? CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?! :D:D
 
I'd like to teach the world to sing...

But I can't sing too well, so that would be a pretty bad idea.
 
Ephi82, I told you not ask a zillion anonymous members of an internet forum how to spend your money !
See what you've started !! :D
 
Ephi82, I told you not ask a zillion anonymous members of an internet forum how to spend your money !
See what you've started !! :D

Your prophecy was correct! I have never witnessed such stupidity in all my life, but it all started with my stupidity, so be it.

If anyone cares, I haven't spent the $1,000 yet, but I have decided it will be on either a Tele that I will set up for open string slide playing, or a set of drums, whichever I find first on the local Craigslist
 
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