Yeah, let's get down to it (again

I think the confuse' comes with the meaning of 'two sources' and the point at which
you feel the need to see (sonically) the micing concerns of a single instrument's cross-width time delay phase effect as overriding other sound priorities.
Very often you'll see the spread on piano sound board given as an example. Might be valid there (don't know). But just as often –
as a rule on acoustic guitar for example? Phooey.
You have plenty of choices, just try to keep in mind the variables and consider the phase effects on spaced pairs don't have to be an overriding issue to be avoided at all, and in some cases simply play well into the sound and mic position choices.
Equal time to the center point of interest trumps (big time IMHO) '3:1 very often. (still talking stereo here)
There's plenty of cases where '3:1 doesn't necessarily fix your 'phase concerns anyway.
Your kit makes almost the perfect test case.. What is reality of the sound of a multi mic'd kit?

There's coincident XY and
no close mics if you like.
But a soon as you introduce time as a variable, there is no 'real but rather various flavors on your time game. But then the cool thing is some of these phase tones sound pretty cool don't they?
XY- phase accurate. ORTIF and other near coincident- not only break 3:1' but add phase effect to good use.
I use omnis one either side, arm height and to the rear slightly as my primaries -but equal time to the snare (ah la 'Recorderman and others. (kick can be slightly secondary IMO)
(And/but.. That 'equal time to the snare' is not just a phase tone thing. Snare tone' was a wide acceptable variable. It also has a strong Haas pan consideration. 6-8" (= .8ms) will do it.
My omno spread is just about worst case as far as wide cross-time differences. But the picture can go from very wide with plenty of good solid tones anywhere all the way down into mono and near mono. None of them are real of course. The sound to the snare follows 3:1 –but then it doesn't need to does it, it's equal time. Other things on the kit (mounted tom?) smash 3:1 – but don't give damn. ... hell you were gona 'scoop' the mids or something anyway!
Here's a good one.
http://www.tufts.edu/programs/mma/mrap/StereoMicTechniques.pdf