Aw shucks, you guys are too kind.
Thanks for the extra info, dude.
That's a pretty wide range of styles and tones you're after, which makes this tricky. That said, the one thing that jumps out at me is more often than not, those guys are Strat players - Hendrix, Layla and onwards Clapton, SRV, Gilmour, Knopfler, Mayer... This is probably the LAST thing you wanted when you posted this question, but maybe a Strat would get you closer to the tone in your head, than a new amp?
On the (fairly) cheap, I've always really liked the Tech-21 Trademark 30 for bedroom playing. It sounds pretty damned excellent, has an FX loop so you can get your looper and reverb behind the preamp, will do a wide array of tones, and cranked all the way up will barely keep up with a live drummer. It's solid state, but sounds better than a lot of smaller tube amps I've played.
The smaller tube Fenders are pretty nice too, though a bit more money, and while they won't get all that crunchy or raunchy, they'll definitely get your Gilmour or SRV sounds. I do admit I occasionally have Blues Jr. GAS myself.
Finally, I'm a total Mesa fanboi, and while they're seriously not cheap, the Lone Star Special might be worth a look. A bit cheaper but harder to find, I used to own a Nomad and it was a great sounding, absurdly flexible rig. I bought the 2x12 45 watt one for around $800, I think, and I've seen the 1x12s around $550-600 pretty often.