Hey Alevy,
Its a tough situation. Especially with friends. Ive made alot of mistakes in the past with allowing friends to take advantage of their positions.
Friends are an absolute night mare in my opinion when it comes to recording. Especially if you own a pro studio. They are all going around and saying, "hey i know this guy who owns a nice studio, hes a good buddy of mine i bet i can get you a hook up." ..... Oh really? The best way to deal with them is to write up a studio policy. Have it actually written down. This is good for anybody actually. When somebody argues you can just say "Thats in my policy and it doesnt change." With friends it needs to be all or nothing when it comes to charging money. Dont ever ever go in between. Also, be careful on who you really think of as friends. Would a real friend really expect you to work hours on end for them for free? No they should be willing to pay you because you are a friend. Basically what i mean by all or nothing and no in between is this. If your going to charge them at all, charge them what you would charge anyone else. If your rate is $10 an hour, charge them $10 an hour and follow through with it. If you decide you want to just help them out and give them a discount, just do it for free. Never say $5 dollars an hour. Why? If you do it for free, they ultimately do not have a say on how it turns out, or on how much work and time you put it. Because it was free they dont have any say on it. You can take as much time as you want or as little, and you work on your own time. Make that clear at the very beginning of the project. If its free, you are the one in charge, you are the one doing them the favor. When you charge full price, then its fair for them to treat you as any other client would treat you. If they dont like it then they are in charge of telling you to do it differently. Just like any other client. So you are seperated from the Friend issue right away. You treat it professionally this way and they will treat you professionally. Friend emotions dont get mixed this way. If they give you guff, its ok because you are getting paid for it just as much as any other client would pay. Now heres where the big no no is. Charging them say half of your regular rate to hook them up. Now you are in a situation where they still have a say for everything, they are still in charge of the project, and they can nag you about everything just as much as a regular client. Because of the fact they are paying money. They WILL abuse this and take the friend part out and treat you professionally, while your sitting there trying to hook them up as a FRIEND. Your mixing too worlds. As long as they are paying you they are not caring about the friend issue. And waht sucks for you, you are not getting paid enough for the issues that will come up. I guarantee their will be more issues this way too. They will completely abuse their position and you will get your ass kicked. Just keep it completely free as a friend helping a friend, or full out and keep it professional. Never mix friends with business. Again, if you are charging them full rate. At the end you can always cut them a deal when it comes time to pay because they are friends. This way it looks more like this, "We went and got $50 an hour work done for us and he gave it to use for $25." Then the value of your work just sky rocketted. Instead of them look at this "He hooked us up by doing $25 dollars an hour value of work instead of $50". HUH? So you did half the job for them. And you had to work twice as much because they had a budget of doing $50 an hour.
Anyway. Hopefully many people are reading this. If i would have known this early on i would have been a much happier person. Its bad situations like mixing friends with business that makes business people cold and heartless. When they have people that come in that they consider friends backstab them it makes them not care about friends anymore and just the business part. We have bills to pay and you little shit people trying to take advantage no longer mean a thing

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Avoiding those kinds of situations will help you keep friends and keep a positive look for them while your running the business.
Anyway. I would just like to say that one of the person that came in recently that i was interested in assisting did go to school. I believe it was recording workshop. He brought in a portfolio that i listened to. I honestly have to say that i was not impressed by that on the resume. Not that i disliked it, its just really not what caught my attention. If hes looking for assistant work the portfolio CD probably wasnt going to be amazingly impressive. I listened and i did like what i heard but it wasnt gonna make me say "Damn, hes got what it takes. Im gonna throw him on a few projects immediately." What i liked is when talking to him was that he was very skilled at customizing and building his own guitars. Not only that but he had a great collection of guitars and amps. I immediately see something that he can bring to the table at the studio. We have something we are both interested in and can trade for our time. Also, he has experience in working with tape machines. Alignment and tech stuff. I dont know if he is extremely experienced in this area, but if he can come in and help run and align tape machines on sessions then i would be happy for him to come in and do that with me.
Also, you mentioned there was somebody you work for that you kind of needed. Payments can be made in things other than money. The value of what he does for you can balance the value of what you do for him. If losing him is going to jepordize an operation you might not want to change anything. He might be giving you enough already.
I probably shouldnt post things that he did without his permission. But i believe he has a website that has samples that he has posted up. Heres a myspace account of his newest work.
www.myspace.com/griffinbeats . The pictures there are my studio. Some old some new. All the beats were done by him. And he brings in MCs to do the rapping while he produces them and tells them what to do.
Danny