I agree with the substance of Scriabin's warnings, although not entirely with his tone. He's basically right. $14,000 is not mega-bucks, but it's a lot of money to get started. As is, you basically have a studio that you'll want to replace the day after you set it up. Your lists focus too much on volume and not enough on substance.
First, I suggest the you have
a gold channel or a stereo pair of gold channels. Second, you can't spend that kind of money on gear and only spend $300 for cables. Cables are not something that you get later down the line. You should get good cables NOW...no ifs ands or buts about it. You don't have to buy Monster 1000. Mogami cable is available at Full Compass and is great cabling. Many professional studios are wired with it. (
www.fullcompass.com ).
www.markertek.com also sell canare cable...also pretty good.
Rather than get a lot of cheap stuff focus on quality stuff that you won't have to replace in a year's time. Selling mediocre gear not only wastes time, but is usually a money loser. Why waste the time if you can do it right up front and use your future to "add to" your studio rather than "selling and replacing."
For $14k, I would like to see at least 2 "gold" channels. I'm thinking preamps from Avalon, Manley, Demeter, Langevin, Millennia Media, Neve, GML, Focusrite, John Hardy, etc...). Get a couple all-in-one boxes so that you get compression and some EQ if that fits you. Or check out the new Universal Audio revived compressors. Check out
www.dreamhire.com They rent quality gear and have links to the manufacturers for more info. You may also want to check out
www.brentaverill.com He sells vintage, rebuilt high-end preamps (Neve, API, etc...).
Then get a strip or two of quality mid-tier preamplification for your large group sessions (Presonus Digimax or something along that line).
Get at least one great mic (Neumann M149, M147, U87) or a couple AKG 414s, or Neumann TLM 103s. This way you have at least 1 or 2 channels that can compete with anything in the "upper tier" pro world.
For your price range, I think that computer mixing is the best bet for you. It's the best bang for the buck. To really do analog mixing at a level that "truly" competes with commercial mixes, you need a bigger budget (at least in the $50k - $100k range for an old Neve or SSL board)...you don't have parametric EQ on lower-end analog boards. Otherwise, your best bet is computer mixing. With quality plug-ins like Waves, Ultrafunk, Sonic Timeworks and others, your processing will be at a higher level than having only 1 outboard piece (Lexicon MPX 500). Even if you went outboard,
the Lexicon PCM 80, 81, 90 or 91 would be a much better bet.
For the rest of your mics, don't scrimp at the bottom. Get an AKG 451, a couple Shure SM 57s,
a Sennheiser MD421 or two a couple of Octavas from the Sound Room and a Studio Projects C1 with good cabling. Instead of 50 gazillion mid or lower-teir mics, get a 4 mic setup for a drum kit. Do the same for other stuff...quality rather than quantity. Plus, for other instruments (other than drums) mic choices are easier and fairly inexpensive (57s for guitars and/or AT4033).
You've got some rethinking to do.
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P.S. why don't you start by telling us what type of group are you most likely to do most of your recording with. Number, instrumentation, setting. Your initial description is a bit vague.