I have read and heard so much conflicting advice about the standby switch- from amp makers, from players, from electronics techs and engineers- that I truly wish no one had ever invented the darn thing. But here's what I believe to be the essence:
The standby switch (SS) sends SOME current to the tubes, to warm them up slowly and gently. Sort of like idling your car in the driveway for a few minutes before you drive off, so that the oil is warm and circulating.
M1F got it right- when you first approach your gear, turn on the SS before you do ANYTHING else- before you pick up your guitar, before you plug anything in, before you do anything. If you look at the tubes at this point, you will see a faint glow. Then, strap on your guitar, tune it up, etc.- go thru the ritual you always do. By the end of that, your tubes should be ready- hit the "on" switch and play. At the end of the session, turn off the "Power" switch, but LEAVE THE "STANDBY" SWITCH IN IT'S ON POSITION, while you unplug your guitar from the amp, put it in the case, etc. Turn off the SS right before you are ready to put the cover over the amp, or whatever it is you do to put it away.
If you remember only one of those procedures, make it the start-up one. Shut down is less critical.
But...
Opinions differ as to what to do DURING BREAKS. Some say turn the power "off" but leave the "Standby" switch on- that this lets the tubes loaf while they are doing nothing, but keeps them ready. Some say leave them both on- that the "hot/warm/hot" cycling of the tubes is almost as bad as "hot/cooling/hot" cycling. I tend to go with the "leave it on" camp, but I can't say it's really better, or even as good. If I am being OCD about it, I leave both switches on, and turn the volume to "0".
Some amps have a circuit that is quite different.
My Fender Champ 25SE, for instance, has this procedure:
Both SS and PS off- amp cold.
Turn PS on, leave SS off- amp in standby mode (LED at switches flashes to indicate standby mode), all tubes (pre and power) show faint red glow.
Turn SS on- amp in ready mode, power tubes glow brighter orange, and show fluorsecent (and very cool-looking) blue glow at base. LED glows steady, to indicate "ready to play." Play, boys, play.
Chamelious, this demonstrates that your "large (sic) current across (the tubes)" is incorrect- if there WAS a higher current across the tubes, they would glow much brighter in standby mode than they actually do.
Whereas, my vintage Fender Deluxe Reverb likes this:
Both SS and PS off- amp cold.
Turn SS on, leave PS off- amp in standby mode, all tubes (pre and power) show faint red glow.
Turn PS on- amp powered up fully and ready to play. Tubes glow brighter orange.
Like I said, I wish no one had ever thought of the standby switch, or that someone would build a circuit that did it for you- you see ONE switch. You turn it on. The amp sits in standby as long as it needs to, and when it knows it is ready, automatically switches it's self to full on. When you are done for the evening, you just turn the switch to off. The amp idles along in self-induced standby for as long as it needs to, then turns it's self all the way off.