weatherbill, repent your sins and join a commune!!!
It usually helps to know WHAT is going on before commenting on what is going on. You obviously don't see the whole story here.
It would almost appear that you HOPE some around here would contract cancer. That is very very sick thinking. There is therapy for those who WANT help for that kind of thinking, but I am not holding my breath here....it is usually too disappointing to do so with cases like yours.
As to your comments about "maturity", well, see comment just above this one and tell me how that shoe tastes please!
You know, try a search on my user name. For every post where you might find something objectionable (oh yes, I am quite aware there a many from me....

) you will find at least 10 posts that answer even some of the most basic questions concerning audio.
Do I have pride? Yes. Can I be arrogant sometimes? Yes.
Now, what is YOUR problem. Do share. I respect people that know what they are about. I bet you don't HAVE the balls to share your shortcomings, NOR to be just who you actually are.
Ahhhhhhhhh, judgements, they are harsh aren't they? And so easy to pass on. The kicker is when those judgements are based upon "contempt prior to investigation". Think that one over a bit friend.
Tell me, who are YOU?