I've been playing a Mesa Rectoverb combo for about 6 months now (a Mesa Nomad before that), and while it's a 50-watt 1x12, it's also definitely not bedroom material. I've got a THD Hot Plate hooked up which certainly takes the edge off, but even then the best tones are found when the poweramp is running pretty hard, which definitely doesn't happen at "bedroom" volumes.
How about a Mesa F-30? It's not as flexible as either the Rectoverb or the Nomad, but it's got a phenominal clean and an awesome gain sound, and is at least a LITTLE lower wattage...