I don't discount or dispute the fact that you, and many others here know what you're talking about. In fact, I'm sure there are people, "brilliant people here." And many of them are much more knowledgeable than me
I'm working on a new one that's "from the heart." When it's done I'll post it in the vocal forum as an example of what I'm talking about (maybe 2 weeks or so). It's a simple song, a country tune. I just wrote it, but "I was feeling it when I wrote it..." It's called "Soft truths." I didn't set out to write it. I just picked up the guitar, and the song reached out to me. It happened? I was there... But I can't say I wrote it? It's difficult to describe, but I know there are others out there who experience music as do I.
Another philosophy of mine, that the writer/singer (i.e., singer songwriter like me) is really just "channeling the music?" That the music comes to us, and then through us? I may really be full of crap, and sometimes, it's really not called in to question because I know I am full of it?
But I work in a technical field (internet network engineering) and as I am fond of saying, when a problem rises to a sufficient level of complexity, there are multiple good ways, and multiple bad ways of approaching and resolving it. It doesn't necessarily mean that one is better than another, as long as they both fix the problem.