When I hear people in this thread say it's not really about talent and it's all about luck...it sounds like some of them are sitting and waiting.....
that's cause you're not really in the professional end of playing. Yes, I know you've done gigs for pay and at one point were a weekend warrior.
Hell, maybe that's the case with most of the guys here at HR.
I, on the other hand, have done nothing else ..... never sat in a basement waiting ...... spent maybe 10 years on the road only seeing hotel rooms (when we could afford a hotel that is) and I've hung with .... hmmm, not gonna name drop but a LOT of biggies and semi biggies .....
None of the guys I work with are half hearted about their careers. I have two friends with #1 records to their credits ...... all the work in the world didn't turn that into more.
There's LOTS of talented players out there ...... LOTS.
And I'm not talking about the better players here at HR. I'm talking REALLY good.
But there is a VERY limited number of spots for new stars. The public can only support a limited number.
Inevitably the larger number of players, regardless of their talent or the quality of songs they write, don't make it big.
And people working in pro studios haven't 'made it'. I've worked in lots of pro studios and spent considerable time in the same studio Stevie Wonder did Songs in the Key of Life and Styx did their big album and whatever that big hit album Kansas did. I got paid for that.
I've also done work in big time studios in New Orleans and Nashville.
Hell, probably the only reason I'm not playing with biggies more than I do is when i had my offer to go to Europe (with a guy who won a grammy that very next year) was that I was divorcing my wife and my daughter was 1 year old. I figured she needed me more than I needed to be in Europe.
That, in itself, is an example of luck falling in a way that hindered me 'making it'. Sure, I could have been a thoughtless bastard and said "screw her' but I didn't.
Too bad but that's just the way it fell.
Talent is everywhere ..... it's common as hell ....... and hard work is everywhere too ....... tons of musicians work every waking second trying to get there.
But if only one 'star' slot is available for every 10,000 talented artists trying for it, 9,999 won't get it. No amount of work will make any difference.