Ive only used the Recorderman technique a time or two so someone may have to correct me, its been a while. I had my right side mic facing into the kit. I guess if it were pointed somewhere, it would be the lower rim of the 1st rack tom. Spacing would depend on where the mic ended up after you do your measurements.
I've seen this one outlined in detail a few times (I don't know if Ive seen BGavins) and for some reason there are always a few confusing parts. I always managed to get a good stereo image pointing the mic the way I described above.