Thanks guys!  Yeah I can get the connector cheap enough, the pre-made cables go for as much as $70......  I noticed that the little dent in the connector, (where it's keyed so the cable can only be put in one way) it's ON  one of the pins.  The connectors I see have this little key BETWEEN 2 pins, so I'm not sure if those will work, or if the part with the pins inside the mic got turned a little bit.  If it physically fits the mic I can make some educated guesses and trial-and-error it until it works I suppose.