Hi there Dumass.
I'm with Phyl. The mix sounds pretty hyped in the upper mids, and it's lacking "thump." Take some of the energy from the top (primarily from the guitars) and try to transfer it to the bass and kick. When I hit the "bass boost" button, I can tell that the kick has a ton of triplets going on...actually, in points, it's just nothing but 16th notes, which is damned near impossible to establish any kind of groove with. It's not a recording issue, but since you said this was your band, I thought I'd mention it.
And yeah, the brass is kinda' hot too.
I gotta' say, after reading this thread, I expected it to suck much worse than it does, lol. Follow your muse, wherever it may lead you. Most people think my shit's pretty boring and lame, and I finally had to quit caring about that, lol.
Gits are kinda' shakey on the intonation too, lol...sorry, that's my last mix comment.
HAVE A GREAT DAY.