I play kit (mostly jazz and blues) I am a djembefola and I also play Middle-Eastern percussion for dance. For me, drum is a verb. I just love what I do. I won't call myself an expert (others have, but they were probably just having a good time at the show and wanted to compliment everybody). I always feel like I'm learning and just keep getting better all of the time. I teach a lot (it's good to earn the extra money, but I really like teaching and seeing people grow into their art).
In West African percussion, you cannot call yourself a master, only other West African masters can call you a master. They have called me a djembefola and like when I play with them. Arabic musicians can be a lot crueler and will literally tell you to leave if they don't like how you are playing. I play with many arabic musicians and they have never asked me to leave (and I have seen them tell others to go away). Jazz musicians like playing with me because they like how I bend the beat and add to the music.
Life is a total blast and I love making music with other people. I will always think of myself as a student no matter how many people tell me how "great" I am, brcause I am always improving and I am grateful every time that I sit with other musicians to make music. Sometimes real great things happen and other times it may just be a conversation with others and we can laugh at each other when we screw something up.
I like being respected as a colleague and I like sharing (and I always like getting paid) but that's enough.
Shouldn't that be enough?