I gave him solid advice. If you can't recognize it for what it is, that's not my problem.
I wouldn't call this good common sense advice to the OP:
... Bring yourself and your tracks to a reputable studio and hire an engineer to pilot the gear while you navigate him to the sounds you want...
You sound grumpy and you're not looking at the Big Picture which is that this site is largely people wanting to do it themselves and learn by screwing up.
Here's my 2 cents:
Start with the kick drum and put it dead center. If you have to, eq the kick to get a sound right for the song. I like a kick that sounds like "TUG!". It's got two components - the "T" which is the beater hitting the head and the "UG!" which is the whole drum sound.
Then add the bass, again dead center. You can put the kick and bass to the slight left and right also if you like. I usually do them both dead center.
Put something like the high hat hard left and something equally light to the hard right. This is just how i do it.
Put the lead "thing" - lead vocal or guitar or sax, whatever it is, in the center.
Then fill in the areas to the left and right of the center with other guitars and keyboards. If your keyboard is going stereo even better.
Try to use as little eq as you can, and in general subtracting instead of boosting sounds better.
Always aim to record as well as you can so that you don't need to eq too much. The best recordings I've done were when the sounds were so "right" that I didn't need any eq.
You don't need to record or mix as loud as you can. Most of my individual tracks run 1/2 to 3/4 of the way.
Find the best recorded example of your genre and put that up there with your tracks so that you can compare it to your song.
Get it as good as you can and then post an mp3 here and people will give you all kinds of advise - like food at a buffet, take what you need and leave the rest.