Drum recording is a special art. I have been the primary recording engineer for
Dave Weckl, Ricky Lawson, Mike White and quite a few other top guys for many many years now. They all do the same thing... they take a lot of time to get the kit sounding great before they even put one mic up. There are a few EQ 'tricks' you can use to get things sounding "better", and some of those have been mentioned about in this post by other guys. High end for attack, dip the mid's for clarity, the "smiley face" EQ is a good one and works well to enhance a good sounding drum. Also mentioned above is that moving a mic even an inch in any given direction can and will dramatically change the sound. If your toms are too 'boomy' try moving the mic back a couple inches. If you want more 'attack' point the mic at the center 'stick impact area' of the head and you will get more attack without having to add EQ. If you'd like, check out my book
"Drum Recording Handbook" published by
Hal Leonard to get more info. It is a great book for persons like you who are just starting out with drum recording. Good luck and have fun!!