The SG's are are a very playable instrument. When you first pick one up, the lack of weight is really striking, and you can have your doubts about the quality as they appear fairly rudimentary.
But after playing one for a while, I have a lot of respect for them and really admire the tone. The middle pickup selector for Jazz is extremely smooth and rich.
As your your questions:
1. The magnetic field strength drops off as the inverse of the distance cubed.
That shows pretty much what you have. Your strings alter the magnetic field at the end, and that induces a current in the coil which is then amplified.
So things stay pretty loud the closer you are to the coil, but unlike a normal potential system like gravity or electric fields, the distance has a much more pronounced effect on field strength.
2. You could use PU heights to merge the sounds of the pickups equally. A difference in volume in the middle position can be due to a number of things, the number of winds around the magnet making one 'hotter' then the other, or
the balance between the two has not been thought out (the neck position has a lot more disturbance because the string vibration at that point has a larger amplitude).
But in this case, I suspect your magnets in your pickups maybe starting to fade because it is a vintage guitar.
3. As a guitar gets older, the magnets in the pickups lose their 'mojo'. Literally, the strength of the magnet decreases over time as the magnetic domains within each bar reallocate, particularly guitars from the 1950's and 1960's. This sometimes has a good effect depending on the instrument. Vintage stratocaster's do it as well.
You can re-magnetize pickups, but because of the vintage status of the guitar, do not do that.
You can play with heights, and if that does not work, just grab another P90 'new vintage' pickup of the same type, and keep the original in the case when you go to sell it, and let the next owner know why you changed it.
More information here:
P90 magnet questions
Good luck.