I'm one of the younger ones on this forum, I think vinyl is a crappy format, etc. etc.
I used to have the whole WinAmp playlist going like 10 years ago, listening to my 160 kbps MP3's (40 gig hard drive, combined with the many games I played, I only had so much room). I stopped ripping my CD's about 5 years ago, and I don't like buying songs digitally. So now I just set up a half decent hi-fi system with a DVD-A player. It was cheaper than an iPod/
iPhone/insert brand here player, and sounds so much better.
Anyway, just so you know where I am coming from, I am kind of with Greg on this one. Yes, I am all for good sound quality, and I make sure my recordings are dynamic but powerful, but I am starting to get tired of the Loundness War arguments too. 4 years ago I was right in there, but now I just get annoyed. It is the same old same old, nothing new. Yeah, Death Magnetic came out in 2008. The arguments haven't changed since 2004. Honestly, the loudness wars don't affect me, I only buy older albums that were remastered in the 90's, or early 00's if that's all that's available. Ironically, Death Magnetic is the one modern CD that I bought.
However, I do have to say, "loud" cuts sound like crap when you crank them. Even on a decent sound system. You crank a moderate cut to the same volume, it sounds great. That's all. That's my two cents.
And shoot, a song I recorded and mastered in my parent's garage (I didn't measure it, but its probably DR 12-14 if you ran it through that program) ended up on local commercial radio, right after the Foo Fighters.
I think the new way to approach it is to stop complaining, appreciate the good music and mixes that you have, and that there are always exceptions to the trend, and appreciate those exceptions.