You know what?
people that learn to do something, and find out they have an aptitude for it that makes it easir for them to pick up? They *love* to believe the idea that they have "it", and others simply dont have it. It makes them feel "special".
a (locally, anyways...lol) pool shark told me I didnt have "it" to learn to take peoples money at pool. *after I am warmed up, I can look away on 8 ball shots, when its for 20 bux a rack*
when i did it all the time, I beat a fair number of "dart snobs"... with HOUSE DARTS. made more than a few "heroes" dang near cry.
mechanics assured me I couldnt diagnose complex engine repairs... manuals and experience cured that.
electronics? I used to do the junior year end projects for the EE candidates at the university... and I was in a different major, LMAO
benchrest shooting? Prcision reloading? home gunsmithing and rebarreling and setting headspace with no training nor proper tools? choking out a large muscular lunatic fully twice my size and strength?
ALL these things, I have been assured by "eggspurts" I didnt have "it", so I could never "really do it". (they of course, had "it", be it heart... coordination... strength.... whatEVER)
there's ONE thing I have learned in this life in 40 years and counting... once you learn t do "any 3 things" that you are convinced you just CANT do, and veryon assures you that you dont have "it"??? *your balls drop*
you develop confidence. confidence to know yu can DO, not just try, and that It just persevrance and confidence... and the smarter you are, the less tries it takes you to do it, by being logical about it.
confidence + perseverance + intelligence = "it"/"creativity"/"whatever"
and thats the name of that tune (pun intended) anyONE can do anyTHING, its just a matter of how many times your willing to back out on the mat... thats assuming one has average intelligence of course, and you dont let your ego get in th way.
MANY great men, when you read of them, are quoted as having no talent, nor "it" for what they wanted to do. They all relate the moment they said "thats it... I'm gonna do it, come hell or high water".
When I was young, there were a great many things I WISHED I could do, I just knew I couldn't, or worse yet, on top of that sme "expert" in th field assured me I didnt have "something" in me I needed.
One fine day, I made a list. I cant think of a singl thing that was on that list, ever, that wasn't crossed off, after I learned to do it in a passable fashion, or even to the point people started saying "huh... your pretty good at this"
One day 5 years ago, the old lady left, and I needed *something* to "do" that was "impossible" so I would keep my sanity. Th only thing I could think of, was "become a reasonably accompished classical composer", because it was the ONE thing I was inherently sure I just could not "do". The idea was that since it couldnt be done, my busy mind would be occupied so I could go about my life.
in 4 or 5 years of hobby... I went from "the face" (you know the face, think of the first thing you ever played/wrote, LMAO) to now I regularly hear "actually, that aint that bad... that one part there is actually really cool. I cant believe you actually MADE that..."
I concentrate on composing. Not playing ANYthing, not recording, not mixing, not on lyrics, just composing... single minded doggedness like ANYthing I have learned to do.
you see, "talent and creativity" is a LATIN phrase. Roughly translated, it means "talent, testicular fortitude, and half a brain or better"... AND, if more kids would read Napoleonic History, we wouldnt be a nation of sniveling, whining, therapy-needing &^%$-twits.
if trying does not kill me, *my will be done*