I tried something that I think I like. Those of you who say you don't get enough toms in the overheads might want to try this before going out and buying more mics.
I found that the I was getting too much snare with this configuration (a nice problem to have, I know...). So I used all the same measurements and parameters for this set up, bu instead of measuring from and pointing the mics at the snare, I measured and pointed them at my middle tom instead (I have a 5-piece kit, so 3 toms).
That alone helped alot, but then to add a twist to it. I moved mic stands around until I managed to get the 2 mics equal distance from the middle tom AND the snare, but still pointing at the middle tom.
I found that it tamed my snare just enough, but better than that, now my toms are way more present and a lot wider. If anything, now they might be a little too wide, so I'm narrowing the panning on them so that it doesn't sound like a have 20 foot long arms. I got no phase issues, too. Well, I never did, but.
You might want to try this if you want your overheads to pick up more toms. It takes a bit of moving around, but there's always a way to get the mics equal distance from the tom and the snare equally.