When I was a teenager, I got busted for shoplifting, and yes you are right in that all I did was serve jail time. The company decided not to press charges and my parents had to pick me up from the jail cell.
However, a few years later I got a job at a retail clothing store. It was at this time that retailers began to take theft a serious issue. This store, a major retail chain, and I know for a fact many other retail chains, began to up the punishment to pressing full charges on the shoplifter. Admittingly, I do not know what "full charges" means and yeah, it's not of the same scale as car theft. But it's not just a slap on the wrist either.
I re-read your posts, and ok, I see that you equate stealing software to stealing a candy bar. But a candy bar costs less than a dollar (at least where I live), making the profit margin insignificant, so it wouldnt surprise me that one would be at most arrested, spend a few hours in a cell and banned from the store.
But software is obviously much more costly. And if retail clothing stores keep a eye peeled for theft and take the law to the fullest extent, then I'm positive that any business with a greater profit margin would do at least the same.
And even if the maximum punishment is menial for theft in any circumstance, then I still see no justification whatsoever of stealing anything.
Before anyone points out that since I stole something that this post is hypocritical, this was when I was a teenager doing a stupid thing because of peer pressure almost 20 years ago. I did my time and I realize was I did was completely wrong.