1st - fuck "F-cksia"
if he said that to me I'd start a new thread every single day, or write a song about him..

fuck him!
dude, if you want to get people to listen to your stuff, just comment on their stuff.. even if you don't have anything technical to say, just say something.. even a 'cool tune' will make someones day and they might check out your stuff and *give you some advice on how to get better.*
learn how forums work.. people don't like it when you start too many threads..
people sometimes get annoyed here very fast.. I think a lot of these people don't get laid enough..
Anyway, I agree that you need to tighten up the performance.. Don't ever let anyone make you want to stop recording and don't look for approval on your writing.. write for yourself, and then maybe seek help in getting the mix to sound better.. if you don't have recording monitors, buy some.. it's the very best thing you can do to help your mixes..
when it comes to your writing, remember these words, 'fuck em!'
everything will fall into place after that..