Hey, I can't help that your vocabulary is so limited.
The changes come slowly and gradually. I adjust the mixes according to the advice I get, if I deem it good (which is most of the time). It's difficult to make a drastic change when I think I have something the way it should sound, but baby steps I can handle. Then that becomes the new normal in my head. Then the next mix comes, I get the same advice, I change it a little more.
In fact, you personally are the most responsible for me not having a kick drum level that could punch a hole in your chest anymore.
Since your criticism is about timing, I could have simply explained that I recorded those drums on a Saturday night after being out drinking most of the day, but no... I first wanted you to know how much your opinion means to me.
I await your apology.