Thanks John. I had a suspicion about all this....
By the way John, I had a little mix thing I did at the club yesterday. We still haven't removed the window right behind my mixing station, but I decided to throw up some rockwool in front of the window just for the day. I in fact put 2 layers of it directly behind me.
The monitors of course have no wall behind them (okay, they do, but that wall is over 50 feet away).
I cannot tell you how different this made mixing! I actually had to mix the stuff with a lot more bass then I am used to! Thing was, the bass translated almost EXACTLY to other playback systems! I found that I could have actually mixed with even a bit MORE bass!
So, next time any of you all are complaining about how when you mix in enough bass on your monitors but it translate to mushy and overbearing bass in other systems, your monitoring environment is more then likely at fault, NOT your monitors (I use Event 20/20's, so I can at least speak for them....

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Flush/soffit mount if you can (I can't at the club, but the big room behind the monitors is a big help here), and make sure to do treatments to the wall behind YOU!!!!
Oh, I did notice right away too that the imaging from the monitors was greatly improved!
By the way Joh,n (yes, another BTW), we decided that in those windows behind and above my mix position that we are going to take the window out, stuff the cavity with 6" or rockwool, and then just cover it with cloth. This will make the sound in the lobby a bit louder, but will make a huge difference at my mix position with the really low stuff below the .99 coefficient of the rockwool at 125Hz. I am thinking that the two layers will by design take care of everything going through the first time down to 125Hz, but it will still allow lower freq's pass too, but by the time the lower freq's get absorbed a bit passing through the first time, bounce around the lobby a bit, then pass back through the rockwool again, that everything below 125Hz should pretty much be taken care of too.
I am missing something? The lobby is about 9' deep, 25' wide, with 18' ceilings. I figure that is enough room for the low end to get messed up in before it hits the rockwool coming back.
Let me know.
Ed