If you are getting a shock from the mic, then the power between the amp and the PA are out of polarity. Probably one of the recepticles has hot and neutral reversed, but if it is a three phase system then they are probably on different legs of the service. A grounded socket is good when something is wrong, and can keep you from getting killed (yes, I said killed, it happens a few times a year), but it is not going to fix the root problem. I am NOT in any way recomending lifting grounds (which you should never ever do), But the lack of ground is not enough for you to get shocked. There are two tools which should be in everyones tech kit for gigs. Number one, you NEED to have a recepticle tester. You can get them just at any hardware store. You plug it in, and it tells you if the recepticle is wired properly, or if there is something wierd (hot neutral reversed, or no ground, or if things are really bad hot and ground reversed - yes, I've seen that, and yes, I fixed it before anyone got killed). You need one.
The other thing you want to get is a multimeter. Set it to measure AC volts, and then touch one end to your guitar and the other end to the mic. This will let you know if things are safe. The quick test for this is to touch your strings to the mix, and watch for a spark (making sure, of course, not to touch the strings while you are doing it). The problem is, if things are bad, you can actually do some serious damage to your guitar this way.
A friend of mine was showing a bass player how to set up the bass player's new rig one time, many years ago, and set it up wrong just to show the bass player what wrong would look like on the multimeter. Before anyone could stop the guy, the bass player touched his strings to the mic.
In that case, it just sent out a shower of sparks and broke the guy's strings (this was in Europe, so it was 240v at the wall). I think he jumped back 3-4 feet, but that was just instinct, and not being blown back by the electricity.
That bass player let his backline guys setup his rig for the rest of the tour.
Best bet is just to get a multimeter, and do it right.
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