I have an
almost 13 yr old girl. I talk to her about music alot (I stay pretty damned current for 35 hehe) When I hear the kinna rap that makes me wanna dance around a fire I make her change it but for the most part I can listen to alot of variety. Im a headbanger at heart.
Her tastes break down into two varieties.
The boy-band kinna "ok, whos got ahold of my nuts!" girl-dont-break-my-heart-AGAIN sing-along stuff...which is for just that, singing along. Think Usher here (her current thing

). Any negative comments are quickly and harshly objected to due to the industries on-target, six-pack, shirt-off, soul-wrenching high-C marketing model...
the psychological satisfaction derived from this music is two-fold.
(1) she is able to "feel" the repeatedly inflicted pain that is sung about. (what teenage girl is not either breaking up or wishing she wasnt broken up any day of the week?)
(2) She is able to, through fantasy, imagine
she is the one being sung to by her very own marketing model...err hot guy. Again, she is able to
feel the repeatedly inflicted pain that is sung about. But now she can imagine that
she is the heartbreaker he is singing too and that my friends is the power of marketing to easily influenced kids.
The
other variety is any black man rapping
anything to that same old tired 20 yr old bass beat/rap cadence (for the love of gawd homies!!!! find a different fucking melody!!!)
Why??? cus a girls gotta dance guys. No fancy psychological allure to rap fellas...its just gotta have a beat
She says she dont listen to the words...she just likes the beats.
Sorry I rambled on
