And where did I make judgments and characterizations of your supposed psychological motivation?
Your constant insistence that I am full of myself, that I consider myself superior, and that I get a kick out of allegedly talking down to people, for starters. I mean, come on, Sam; you're still at it even now, even after I tried offering you an open hand.
As far as the OP goes, considering the two posts immediately before mine by a couple of the most knowledgeable and respected people here told him his idea was "spitting in the wind" and that the "best preset to start with was bypass", as OP I would have figured that brand of sarcasm - as misplaced as it may have been on my own part - was pretty much in line with the tone of the thread thus far.
And seriously, I know you're trying to be a nice guy but "It's a joke, son! Relax." in this context is well, dismissive and condescending. I'll allow for the possibility that you didn't mean it and I'll take no offense.
If you know that I'm trying to be a nice guy, why isn't that enough for you? If you understand that, and if you take no offense at it, than why do you feel the need to bring it up and (wrongly) point it out as dismissive and condescending?
And I'M the one that's trying to sound superior? Has it occurred to you that your constant judgment of me and your assumptions as to my motivations is really a constant effort on your part to assert your own superiority of character?
Christ, man, I only put that in there because jokes can be so misunderstood and taken as non-jokes when expressed in text format. I only dare think of how you would have responded if I hadn't thrown that "just kidding" in there.
In exchange, you could take the comment to heart and consider off-line just why it is you feel the need to talk down to people.
I have been honest and straightforward in expressing my opinion, and detailed in explaining why, without any coddling or condescension whatsoever. OK, I laid on the sarcasm pretty thick in my original post, much more than I should have, perhaps; I have admitted that several times already. But I have never once talked down to anybody here or tried asserting any superiority over anyone in this thread. If that's the way you read it, that's not my fault or my problem, that's yours.
I offered you an open hand of reconciliation and your response was backhanded at best, and was actually probably the most condescending post in this entire thread: 'I know you're trying to be nice, but you're still coming across as a jackass. But I know you just can't help yourself so I won't get mad about it' is about as obvious of a talking-down-to as there is. Look up examples of "dismissive" and "condescension" in the dictionary and you'll see that quoted verbatim.
My hand remains open. It's up to you if you want to open yours or keep it clenched closed.
But if you want to keep your fist closed, do us all a favor and take it off this thread and move it elsewhere. Whether it's via PM or in person, or anywhere in-between, I don't care. But we are doing nothing more than f**king up this thread and pleasing the ambulance chasers by continuing it here.
G.