No, of course not...not at all. It's an interesting topic to me, and I think there's no right or wrong answer. Music is art and it's open to interpretation for sure. I'm thinking through this and realizing that since I'm not a drummer it might sound cavalier for me to just say it doesn't matter to me if the drums are "enhanced", and maybe I'm being a hypocrite because I would never do that with my guitar or bass tracks and
usually leave my vocals pretty much alone.
I think correcting timing on drums is a double edged sword...I think that a lot of home recordings have drums that are just a little "off", and the thing about drums is that they are so critical that if they are even slightly off, even if the listener can't necessarily point to the problem and put a finger on it, it still leaves a bad taste. But the other side of it is exactly what you said above...if you perfect every little thing, then you lose something - that human feel/groove is gone. BUT...that's assuming the human feel/groove is really, REALLY good to begin with

Not taking anything at all away from the drummer I'm currently working with, but he's trying to lay down drum tracks to existing songs, and it's a bitch, just like Greg mentioned above, and honestly the results are pretty good, but usually when we're done there are enough little things that tweak my ear that I just can't leave it alone. I still think the drum tracks he's recording are better than the ones I bang out on my keyboard/software instrument though, and it's more than just timing...it's also what he plays and how he plays it, which is different than what I do, and the emphasis he puts on certain things, etc.
Of course, all of the above depends on the style of music too...I'm definitely going for a radio-ready sound (at least that's what I'm aiming for, how successful I'm being, well...?) and I think that calls for near-perfection, especially these days when everything you hear is beat corrected and autotuned and processed to the nth degree.
Anyway, no harm at all Jason, I totally respect where you are coming from. It's all good!
Best,
Dave