I don't quote follow your reasoning. Note that I said use the quietest song as the benchmark - or maybe better word might be reference - for the album. Part of the job of album master is usually to NOT preserve the relative volumes, but rather to even them out, at least to some degree.
Well, it seems a misunderstanding then. I usually adjust the volumes to each other before I even think of the final level. After that, I have a relation which makes sense musically, and of course, which I want to preserve during further editing. Thus pushing the hottest part of the entire album to a reasonable maximum (not excessively over the top, of course), and then adjust the volume of the other tracks by the same amount is the usual way I do it.
Just curious, for bands that you really like, do you stop listening to them because of any sort of audio production issues? If so, do you not listen to them on mp3 and earbuds?
Yes, there are. Some albums I really like musically, but very rarely actually listen to them, because they sound like a turd:
Rosenstolz - "Zucker": Mirror frequencies in the strings, dull sounding drums, clicks everywhere. And the bus apparently is compressed that much that any tremolo (which is a notable trademark of her voice) is turned into obvious modulation artifacts.
I once offered them to remix and remaster that album. They are actually pleased by my offer, but they had a contract and gave me the address of their producer who refused to even answer me. I hate those contracts where the band isn't even allowed to have a word about the way a CD is mastered. And this is the majority, I afraid.
Mike Oldfield - "Tubular Bells III": Actually the album is very listenable. Quite hot, but not over the top. Until the final part where the tubular bells come in. It's close to white noise and very distorted. There are worlds between this and the earlier "Tubular Bells" which I listen to much more frequently.
Santana - "Supernatural" (the studio album): It's that distorted, I never even played it to the end. One of the worst examples ever.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - "Californication": I used to avoid this "excessively clipping everywhere and midrange pushed far up"-album, until I got the bootleg, which I did remaster (excerpts on my homepage), and fans really wanted to buy a copy, which I had to refuse for legal reasons, unfortunately.
Eminem - "The slim shady lp": Distortion everywhere. The wave looks like this happened during tracking.
Any
Abba remastered albums: That band has pretty dynamic mixes, and most of them are excellent examples of good mixing as well, so you really don't want to go higher than about -14 dBFS rms sine during mastering, or you will notice dynamic loss. All remasters are far over the top leaving a steady white noise sound. I wouldn't buy those for the world. (There's an example on my homepage how it can sound remastered properly)
I also won't buy any later
Bob Dylan albums, and he very sure knows why. It's that same stupid contract thing.
Gov't Mule - "Mighty High": It's a reggae album, and as you probably know, reggae lives from bass intense rhythms. This CD has no such thing whatsoever, which isn't a surprise at a -6 (minus six) dBFS rms sine overall level.
It doesn't matter if I listen to those in a descent home stereo, a PA or on my MP3 Walkman with headphones. (I don't use those earplugs which usually come with the device)
I would like to propose an option E. Create music so compelling that all of the above is secondary. While I'm not a fan of crushing music to death, I tend to listen even less to music that sucks no matter how well produced.
Don't ruin good music, just because you're thinking that it's good enough so that doesn't matter! It does!
Sure, no one wants to listen to very well mastered CD's if the music is not worth it to begin with. However, given the music is worth it, a decent mastering job is important to really make you able to enjoy this.