I find myself using much less reverb after buying 'Transient Monster'. Snares just got buried when using verb, trying to get that natural room sound.
I picked up some outboard compressors recently (since I still mix mostly OTB) that will do the same thing in spades, plus allow for all kinds of tonal/texture variations.
If you need an outboard comp...check out the Overstayer line. VERY inexpensive for what you are getting. I started off with the full-rack Stereo VCA Comp, which will hold its own against the API, SSL, Obsidian, stereo bus comps. I used it on one mix so far and it was great!
Then just a couple of weeks ago I also got the two half-rack comps Overstayer makes...the Stereo FET comp and the Stereo Dynamics Processor (which is really a "junior" version of the Stereo VCA Comp).
So far I only tested them out, and of course, I use a drum track to do that, as I find drums make it easy to hear what a comp is/can do...and man, the FET comp made me soil myslef....it's THAT good on drums.
My next mix which I should get to soon, will have all three Overstayer comps working.
They have Dirt options for adding some.....dirt.

A Grab option that lets you control how much of the LF the comp is reacting to. Blend knobs so you can mix the uncompressed and compressed signals, letting you do parallel compression in one box. There is also a Behavior knob that changes the slop/knee and reaction of the compression....
...all in all, I don't have a single bad thing to say about any of them so far.
Go check out GS...they really talk-up the Overstayer stuff there, and some guys were dumping their 2-3 times more expensive comps in favor of the Overstayer. They ALL absolutely love the FET on drums!!!
The full-rack goes for around $800, and the half-rack units are around $550 each...but you can get the two half-rack units as a "combo" with all the rack mounting hardware to connect them, plus some mods...for like $950.
OK...sorry for the big "sell"...

....but they really are sweet comps. I guess the only "downside" is that they are dedicated stereo comps, one set of controls for both L/R...but of course, you can still use one on a single channel...just can't do dual-mono channels with them...though it's a minor "negative", and I prefer that for stereo use there is a single set of controls instead of the "Link" where on some units you still need to futz with both sets of controls even for stereo operation.
Now back to the reverb hate....
