I missed this thread somehow...
I'll just jump in inappropriately now.
The 90's were good for me gigging. My band then was basically managed by Barry Fey. At least his guy who did the dirty work was in control. We were able to open for sold out headliner shows on a regular basis. Mile High Stadium (Rocky Mountain Jam 2) was one of the gigs we were able to play because of the connection. Yeah, we went on at noon, but there were 11,000 people there. I thought we were on our way to stardom! lol! That didn't pan out like I planned...
In those years, we could demand $1500 for a weekend gig at a 300 capacity (cover) club for one 45 minute set. The money maker gigs were renting DAV halls, calling them reception parties, renting stage, lights, PA, and off duty cop, and providing beer with $15 donation. $5g would be made from these regularly. Well, until we ran out of DAV halls... Nothing to make a living from, but there was actually a music scene then that was worth playing. Plus, we had 5 or so guys that would set up/tune our gear before the shows, then tear it down after. Of course they were paid by alternative means, but it was fun for everyone.
We actually had a record deal, but it fell through. Surprise surprise....
Many years and other projects later, things have changed drastically. I still had fun being in a band with a local Radio DJ that allowed us to open for sold out crowds for bands like Suicidal Tendencies, Korn, blah blah.. Hell, the gig I enjoyed the most was being the backup band for Jim Brewer doing his 'party in the stomach' routine as well as his impersonation of Brian Johnson and Hetfield. But it became more of a bullshit thing about who I knew, and not what I believed in. The scene (fans) are not there like they were for most genres. I just have grown tired of dealing with other people and their personal issues, drama, and addictions. I still play, but mostly in a recording situation. I occasionally go out and do reunion shows, or fill in for someone, but it is just not as fun as it was when I was younger. Moving my drums is something I wouldn't wish on any friend. And I don't sell drugs...
I agree, that since I became more involved with recording, the less I care about being a 'rock star'. My wife thinks I am, and I'm sure my daughter will feel the same. That is enough for me now.
As to the OP's question, I never take a break from music. I just
evolve with what moves me to a new direction. Now, I mostly record other musicians broken dreams. lol